Csikszentmihalyi’s Happiness Advice
From a new Time article on Mihalyi Csikszentmihalyi’s new grad program at CGU:
Drawing on his research on happiness, Csikszentmihalyi has three general pieces of advice:
* Be attuned to what gives you genuine satisfaction. Although many people assume that popular activities like watching TV are enjoyable, their own reports generally indicate that they feel more engaged, energetic, satisfied and happy when doing other things.
* Study yourself. To better understand their own happiness, Csikszentmihalyi says, people should systematically record their activities and feelings every few hours for a week or two. In recording your observations, try to focus on how you actually feel, rather than what you think you ought to be feeling or what you expect to feel. Afterwards, note the high points, particularly, and the low ones. Then try to adjust how you spend time according to your findings.
* Take control. Repairing unhappy conditions requires active effort. People often assume external conditions will change for the better or let chance determine their response. That’s a mistake. “Get control,” Csikszentmihalyi says. When things aren’t right, “you have to put in the same effort you would if your business were in trouble. Just as markets move, life changes too.”
Again: “unhappy conditions require active effort.” What if you happen to be writing a novel and just don’t have the time? Unhappiness isn’t that bad, really, if you’ve got something better to be working on.
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If you look at the Scientific American article profiling Lyubomirsky (that you blogged a few posts back), you’ll notice that she mentions a caveat to the “study yourself” notion: that people who do these “happiness exercises” too often (say, every day rather than once a week) AREN’T happier.
Want to be happy: don’t over-analyze yourself.